How can I love someone even if their actions are hurting me?

[oluwaniifemi__]

What's love? We know as believers we say God is love but how can I love someone even if their actions are hurting me

 

[Munachi]

What's love? We know as believers we say God is love but how can I love someone even if their actions are hurting me.

TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION... HERE ARE SOME TIPS ON WHAT YOU CAN DO.
Loving someone doesn’t mean allowing pain. You can love them from a healthy distance if their actions are hurting you.
HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE.
1.Set Boundaries with Love- I care about you, but I need to protect my peace. Boundaries are not rejection — they’re self-respect.
2. FORGIVE BUT DON'T TOLERATE THEM- Forgiveness frees you, not them.You can forgive and still walk away from toxic behavior.
3. PRAY FOR THEM- Even if you're not in contact, pray for their healing. That’s love, quiet, mature, and from a distance.
4. DETACH EMOTIONAL IF NEEDED-Stay kind, but don’t carry the weight of their choices, love doesn’t mean losing yourself.
5. LOVE YOURSELF MORE- You matter most, your peace, health, and happiness are paramount. You can't give what you don't have....You can’t pour from an empty cup.
REAL LOVE SAYS.......
“I love you... but I won’t let you destroy me.”That’s not weakness — it’s wisdom. And it’s the kind of love that honors both you and them.
So as a believer it's our duty to love even our enemies but that doesn't mean you should remain when the love is one sided and you're at the receiving end(hurt/pain).
Know when to withdraw with respect and apply wisdom as we look towards the perfect example of love (JESUS IN JOHN 3:16).
SHALOM