tongues

I was told yesterday that I do not have the Holy Spirit in me since I can't speak in tongues. The gifts of the Spirit are diverse. Is it Mandatory for all believers to speak in tongues? And I've heard where someone said Speaking in tongues means speaking in other languages. Just like in Acts...

Seventy percent of Christians don't speak in tongues because ‘‘It just doesn't feel right’’ Well... It doesn't need to feel right to be done. It's just like a Christian who doesn't feel like he's saved from sin after believing and confessing Jesus as Lord. It really doesn't matter how you feel...